Guide

Helping a child start primary school

The first weeks at a new school are tiring for most children. A little preparation helps.

Before the first day

• Visit the school together if you can, and walk or drive the route.
• Read picture books about starting school.
• Practise the things your child will need to do alone, such as using the toilet, putting on shoes and opening a lunch box.
• Label everything.

The first weeks

Expect your child to be tired and sometimes grumpy at the end of the day. Keep evenings quiet and bedtimes regular. Many children say very little about their day, so ask about one specific thing, such as who they sat with at lunch.

In a new country

If your child is also learning a new language, they may be quiet at school for a while. That is normal. Keep in touch with the class teacher, and ask how your child is settling rather than waiting for the first report.

Talking to the teacher

Tell the teacher anything that might affect how your child settles, such as a recent move or a new sibling. Teachers would rather know early.